Perhaps life is merely a series of choices and the consequences/rewards of said choices.  Before we begin, I would like for you to think of the age-old questions, “What do you want to eat?” and “Where do you want to go?”  The questions appear miniscule, however the way you choose to answer this question may lead you to a realization.  The most common responses are, “I don’t know”, “It doesn’t matter” or “whatever you want”.  Being indecisive eventually spills over into every area of your life, leading you to lackluster experiences.  You will find yourself unfulfilled in life, love, career, etc. because the comfort of those around you has become more important than your own. The reality is, we DO know what we want, however, we don’t feel free to express it.

Life is jam-packed with things beyond our control, therefore, every opportunity you’re given to make a choice in life, MAKE IT and make it for you!  Some may say, “…but what if I make the wrong choice?”  What if you do?  It won’t be the first and it certainly won’t be the last.  However, you will soothe the tormenting “Shoulda, coulda, woulda…” questions filled with life’s regrets.  When a choice is made for self, truly for self, the sense of accomplishment and peace is unsurmountable.  All-in-all, your choices help shape your life experience, so why not choose exactly what YOU want?  You might surprise yourself.


Until Next Time,



  • Whitney: September 10, 2023
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    Love this! I needed to read this. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and wisdom.

  • Beabe : February 19, 2023
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